Erin Iveson described her seven-year relationship with her partner, Amber, as having major plans for the future at the start of 2026. The couple was house hunting and their businesses were thriving. Iveson had planned to propose to Amber during a trip to hike Mount Kilimanjaro.

However, in April, after Iveson returned from a trip to Florida, Amber began crying and said they needed to talk. Amber expressed she wasn't "living in her values" and wanted to get married and have children, which Iveson found disorienting despite past conversations about these topics.

The following day, Amber made plans to see friends at the beach. Later, Iveson discovered Amber was at her assistant's house, with Amber explaining her car was locked at the beach. Iveson's suspicion grew, especially recalling Amber had been out unusually late with her assistant the previous week.

When Amber returned home, Iveson confronted her about her sudden desire for marriage and children. Amber admitted to having feelings for her assistant and having cheated on Iveson with her. Within weeks, Amber moved out of their shared home, taking their dog, Joe. Iveson noted that Amber quickly began a relationship with her assistant.

Iveson described the betrayal as blindsiding, stating there were no prior warning signs. She later learned Amber had sent her listings for potential homes the same week the affair began. Iveson reflected on the pain of the breakup, noting that her partner, who regularly expressed affection and called Iveson the best part of her day, had treated her in such a hurtful way.

The emotional toll of the breakup led to insomnia, loss of appetite, and panic attacks. Iveson booked a trip to Mexico to cope with the loneliness and the difficult experience of her partner being cold and cruel during their conversations.

Feeling alone and overwhelmed, Iveson began posting humorous TikToks about her situation. These videos resonated with others who had experienced similar betrayals, and her "storytime" series about the infidelity went viral, accumulating millions of views. Iveson found empowerment in the supportive responses, feeling she was not alone in her experience.

Her ex-partner, Amber, was initially upset about the viral nature of the story and the identification of those involved. However, Iveson reported that Amber eventually took accountability for her actions and expressed remorse for her cruelty and the impact of her betrayal.

Amber apologized for her actions, misleading Iveson, and breaking their trust. She also acknowledged that her betrayal might make it difficult for Iveson to trust again. Amber described her actions as "nothing short of evil."

Iveson shared that during their final conversation, Amber initiated a long, emotional hug. Iveson described the hug as inappropriate for someone in a new relationship but found comfort in it at the moment. She questioned whether Amber's intentions were to comfort her or to alleviate her own guilt.

Iveson stated that sharing her story on TikTok has aided her healing process. While acknowledging the initial attention was due to the breakup drama, she hopes followers will stay for content related to healing and self-care. She aims to show that life continues moving forward despite significant setbacks.

She emphasized the importance of forgiveness in her healing journey, believing that unresolved grief can negatively impact one's soul and perspective on life. Iveson is focusing on redirecting the love and care she once gave to Amber back onto herself, working to separate her sense of self from her past relationship.

Iveson expressed hope for a fulfilling life independent of romantic love but also for future romantic relationships to be reciprocated. She stated she forgives Amber and releases the hurt caused, wanting it not to diminish her own light. She does not regret the love she has given and hopes Amber can say the same.

A request for comment from Amber to the Daily Mail did not receive a response.