Carol and Ray Hatton, parents of former world boxing champion Ricky Hatton, have spoken out for the first time a year after their son died by suicide on September 14. They have urged the public to express love to friends and family, emphasizing the importance of doing so before it is too late.
Carol Hatton recalled her final embrace with her son, Ricky, just three days before he took his own life at the age of 46. She visited his gym in Hyde after an argument with her son, describing it as a moment where the family was "building bridges." She pulled up to the gym, saw his car, and gave him what she called a "real proper hug."
"I said I'd like to see a bit more of him," Carol told ITV News. Ricky Hatton indicated he wanted to see his father, Ray, the following week, but he died three days later. Reflecting on the encounter, Carol Hatton stated, "I'm so glad (I got to see him) because nobody knows when it's the last time you're going to see somebody."
Ray Hatton encouraged others, particularly men, not to hesitate in telling their sons they love them. "You tell your grandkids how much you love them, you tell your wife how much you love them but I think, especially with men, don't ever be afraid of getting hold of your son and telling him you love him," he said.
The boxing champion had become estranged from his parents for approximately a decade before initiating reconciliation efforts several years before his death. During this period, he struggled with drug and alcohol addiction and had survived previous suicide attempts.
A significant rift occurred over financial matters, though Ricky Hatton initially allowed his parents to see his newborn daughter, Millie. The dispute intensified when his girlfriend, Jennifer, was not invited to a Christmas Day party. Months later, his parents' lawyers sent letters requesting contact with their granddaughter. In response, Ricky Hatton told the Manchester Evening News in 2013 that he informed his parents, through solicitors, that they did not want them to have contact with Millie. He described the situation as a "mess" and the family feud as "bitter and horrible."
The feud escalated to a physical altercation in a car park, where Ray Hatton punched his son. Ricky Hatton retaliated, and his father then drove away.
Carol and Ray Hatton continue to process their son's death, with Carol stating they "have to move forward" while "remembering him and loving him."
They are now advocating for a statue of Ricky Hatton to be erected in Manchester, viewing it as a "fitting tribute" to their son, who they believe brought considerable pride to the city.
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