Lauren Silverman, the longtime partner of television personality Simon Cowell, has revealed a strict parenting rule for their 12-year-old son, Eric: no devices in the bedroom during sleepovers. Silverman acknowledged this policy has made her "unpopular" among her son’s friends but emphasized its positive impact on their interactions.
In a social media post, Silverman stated that the rule is not an anti-technology stance but a deliberate choice to allow children space to "simply be children." She believes that by removing smartphones, playdates and sleepovers foster more laughter, conversation, better sleep, and deeper connections.
Silverman shared an image of Eric with two friends, noting that the rule could potentially make her the "least popular mum" in their social circle. However, she explained that the intention is to encourage activities like bike riding, swimming, outdoor exploration, and genuine conversation, rather than solitary scrolling.
"Somehow the hours seem to slow down," Silverman wrote, observing that without devices, children engage more actively, "making memories" instead of passively consuming content. She stressed that the goal is "connection, not control," and that this approach is about finding "balance."
Silverman encouraged other parents to consider adopting similar practices to "help make this the new norm," while also noting that children can still access phones if needed for contacting home. She stated that "culture changes at home" and envisioned a return to playdates focused on interactive activities.
The reaction from other parents in the comments section was mixed. Some praised the rule, suggesting that adults should also set examples by limiting their own phone usage. Others expressed concern about children needing to be contactable, a point Silverman addressed by reiterating that phones are accessible for essential communication.
Simon Cowell and Silverman began dating in 2013 and welcomed Eric in 2014. They became engaged in December 2021. Silverman also has a son, Adam, from a previous marriage.