Tess Crosley, who had an affair with Brisbane Lions star Lachie Neale while he was married to his best friend Jules, has spoken out about the alleged "love-bombing" she experienced during their relationship. Crosley described the intense attention as something that altered her "brain chemicals" and impacted her judgment.
"I think I experienced love-bombing, which I think definitely changes your brain chemicals," Crosley stated in an interview with The Debrief with Savanna Young. She also noted that difficult circumstances in her own marriage and a friendship that grew too close contributed to the situation.
Love-bombing is characterized by an overwhelming display of attention, affection, gifts, or promises early in a relationship, which can create a strong emotional attachment. Crosley believes this pattern played a significant role in her involvement with Neale.
New Relationship Accelerates
Recent events suggest Neale may be employing a similar approach with his current girlfriend, Emma Field. The couple was first seen together in early August, and their relationship has reportedly progressed rapidly. Within weeks, Field was seen in Neale's inner circle, gaining access to the Lions' post-match rooms following a victory on August 21.
Reports indicate that Neale was allegedly messaging multiple women at the beginning of his relationship with Field, including one social media personality with whom he reportedly discussed seeking more than a casual relationship. This raises questions about whether Field is experiencing the same intense attention that Crosley described.
When approached for comment regarding Neale's alleged past infidelity, including claims that he cheated on Jules with another woman prior to his affair with Crosley, Field offered no direct response and reportedly stonewalled the questions. She also did not indicate any concerns about Neale potentially cheating on her in the future.
Field, a marketing professional who previously ran a mobile beauty business with her sister, has a significant social media presence. Neale appears to be an active follower of her accounts.
Lachie Neale's ex-wife, Jules, is reportedly aware of the new relationship but is said to be unfazed and focused on her own life in Perth. The Debrief with Savanna Young releases new episodes weekly across multiple podcast platforms.