A reader has written to columnist Bel Mooney seeking advice on whether to attend her goddaughter's wedding, as she cannot condone the groom's character or past behavior. The reader stated she will not attend the ceremony because she considers the groom to be "a s***" and questions how anyone could forgive his "disgraceful behaviour."
Mooney, a columnist for the Daily Mail, typically offers guidance on personal dilemmas. In this instance, the reader explicitly stated her strong disapproval of the groom, indicating that her feelings are so intense that she cannot be present for the occasion. The letter highlights a conflict between family obligation and personal judgment, posing the question of whether forgiveness is always necessary or possible in such situations.