For women working in Donald Trump's White House, the demands extend beyond professional duties to encompass a rigorous expectation of personal presentation and unwavering availability, according to former staffers.
These aides, described by one insider as "Maga perfect," face the challenge of maintaining impeccable appearances while working demanding, round-the-clock roles. The pressure to look a certain way, dress impeccably, and be available at any hour, even from as early as 2 a.m., contributes to an environment described as "utterly draining."
Staff Departures and Personal Sacrifices
The intense demands were highlighted by the recent departure of Karoline Leavitt, Trump's press secretary. Leavitt, 28, announced she was leaving the White House to focus on her two young children, stating she could not simultaneously be the mother her children deserved and dedicate the required "constant time, energy and attention" to her job. Despite her departure, Leavitt was photographed shortly before leaving alongside the President.
Leavitt is not the only woman to have recently left Trump's inner circle. Since January, six women in senior roles, including Director of National Intelligence Tulsi Gabbard and Homeland Security chief Kristi Noem, have departed. These departures come amidst ongoing reports of Trump's demanding management style, characterized by an "always on" approach, unexpected calls at all hours, and exacting standards.
Appearance and Professionalism
Sources indicate that a significant aspect of working for Trump involves a strong emphasis on personal appearance. Women in these roles often make professional blow-dry appointments, apply meticulous makeup, and choose designer outfits. The cost of maintaining this image, coupled with demanding work schedules, can be financially burdensome, particularly for younger aides earning between $50,000 and $70,000 annually.
Beyond the outward appearance, the constant availability expected of staff means that personal lives, including family responsibilities, are often secondary. Leavitt's situation exemplifies this tension, as she reportedly returned to work shortly after giving birth during her first maternity leave due to an assassination attempt on Trump. During her most recent maternity leave, she was allegedly called frequently by Trump, who relied on her presence.
Diverse Perspectives on Trump's Leadership
While some former staffers describe a stressful and demanding environment, others offer a different perspective. They contend that Trump has consistently promoted women to senior positions throughout his career, citing examples like Kellyanne Conway and Susie Wiles leading campaigns and Ivanka Trump's prominent role. These supporters argue that Trump's focus on professionalism and appearance is not limited to women and extends to men as well, reflecting his business background.
Some defenders suggest that the emphasis on appearance among female staffers is driven by "female competition" within a highly competitive White House environment, rather than direct demands from Trump. They also point to Trump's empowerment of women, noting his continued trust in Leavitt as an adviser despite her decision to prioritize her family.
Historical Context and Former Staffer Accounts
Accounts from former associates, such as Blanche Sprague, who worked for Trump before his presidency, recall similar demands for constant availability. Sprague described her role as akin to a "nanny," managing petty grievances and immediate requests, even late at night.
Stephanie Grisham, former press secretary and aide to Melania Trump, published a memoir detailing her experiences, accusing the President of "terrifying" anger and alleged inappropriate behavior towards young female employees. Trump has publicly dismissed Grisham's account as untrue and driven by bitterness.
Despite these criticisms, some loyalists maintain that Trump respects female expertise and has surrounded himself with capable women, including social media aide Natalie Harp and deputy director of communications Margo Martin. They argue that Trump's tendency to be surrounded by women, often described as glamorous, is part of his public persona and not necessarily indicative of negative intentions.