A woman recently began casually dating after a long-term relationship and has encountered a recurring sexual practice with multiple partners that she finds disturbing. In a column published by the Daily Mail, she described how every man she has dated recently has attempted to spit on her, with one instance occurring without her consent.
She expressed her repulsion, citing concerns about germs and questioning if this is a new trend. The woman also noted that when she has voiced discomfort with partners, they tend to become self-conscious, and she is seeking guidance on how to communicate her boundaries without diminishing the romantic mood.
In response, advice columnist Jane Green acknowledged that this practice, known as spitting, is a form of kink that can be a source of arousal for some individuals. Green emphasized that any sexual activity, including kinks, requires mutual consent and open communication. She advised setting boundaries and having explicit conversations about sexual preferences and dislikes before engaging in intimacy. This proactive approach, Green stated, is a mature and common method for navigating sexual relationships, particularly within non-vanilla sexual practices.