Influencer Steph Claire Smith has shared a candid confession about her sex life, revealing a common tactic women sometimes employ when starting a new relationship: overstating their willingness to perform oral sex. Smith, 32, discussed the topic on her KICPod podcast with her husband, Josh Miller.
Smith explained that early in their relationship, she led Miller to believe she was more enthusiastic about oral sex than she actually was. "I set myself up, honestly for the s**t that comes up now," she said, referring to moments when Miller desires the act and she feels obligated due to her past behavior. She admitted that she rarely performs oral sex and that her initial enthusiasm was a "lie."
She further commented, "May enjoy it more if I was any good at it… also may be better at it if I did it more."
Smith's admission resonated with many listeners, with several fans commenting on social media that they had engaged in similar behavior. "This is a common tale," wrote one user, while another posted, "Howling at this one ladies!"
However, not all reactions were positive. One male commenter expressed disbelief, writing, "It's laughable that this is laughable for women. She'll be so shocked when he cheats. There is no bigger issue in any marriage than if your partner doesn't put out. Ask any bloke."
Smith and Miller, who married in November 2019, welcomed their second child, a daughter named Billie Claire Miller, last year. They are also parents to a son, Harvey, born in May 2021.