A TikTok influencer has cautioned women about a perceived trend of men using dating applications as a means to secure free lodging, particularly during major events like the World Cup.
Emily Durham, known on TikTok as @offtheclockemily, alleged in a viral video that some men are treating apps such as Hinge like booking platforms for short-term stays. She recounted an instance where a friend matched with a man who, after a date was arranged, requested to stay at her house for the entire weekend. The man cited a social engagement in the area and his own residence being an hour away as reasons for the request.
According to Durham, the man also stated he wasn't looking for a serious relationship, only wanting to spend the weekend with her. Durham commented, "[Men] are using Hinge like Airbnb." This observation has led to speculation in the video's comment section that such behavior might be linked to attendees seeking accommodation for World Cup games. Users have shared similar experiences, including one who reported a man asking to be picked up from the airport and another who received a lengthy voice note about needing a place to stay for a week in New York City.
The discussion also touched upon other dating trends identified by experts, such as "date stacking," where individuals schedule multiple dates in a short period to maximize efficiency, and "choremance," where couples engage in errands together instead of traditional romantic activities. These trends have been described as potentially appealing to a generation of daters experiencing burnout.