Vogue Williams Jests About Navigating Family Life and Renovation with Spencer Matthews
The TV personality shared insights into managing their large family, a move, and ongoing home renovations, while also addressing comments about Spencer's public displays of affection.
Vogue Williams has humorously remarked that she and her husband, Spencer Matthews, should 'hate each other' given the demands of their current life, which includes managing four children, moving house, and undertaking a significant renovation.
The couple, who met in 2017 and married in 2018, are parents to Theodore, Gigi, Otto, and their newborn son, Remy Valentine. They are currently in the midst of an 18-month renovation project on what they describe as their 'forever home' in Battersea, just weeks after welcoming their youngest child.
Speaking on her podcast, 'My Therapist Ghosted Me,' Williams expressed pride in how she and Matthews have handled recent challenges. She stated, "I was actually I was thinking about myself and Spencer yesterday and like it's rare to give yourself a compliment. But I was like, 'Spenny, do you know what? I am proud of us. We have navigated having four kids, doing two moves, doing a renovation, and we still f****** really like each other. Isn't that amazing? We should We should hate each other but we love each other."
Williams also addressed recent comments made by Matthews on Katherine Ryan's podcast, where he suggested he loves her more than she openly expresses her affection for him. Matthews had indicated that while he is very open with his love and affection, he doesn't always receive the same level of public reciprocation.
Recounting a conversation with Matthews after his podcast appearance, Williams recalled sending him the clip and saying, "F*** sake, Spencer. Cue all the comments like 'Oh, she only loves you for your money', I'm like 'For f*** sake, Spencer.'" She quipped, "I mean it is true, but you don't have to tell everybody! It's important, somebody always loves somebody else more, and it's only a little bit. I really love him, but like he really loves me."
She added that while someone might love another person 'just a little bit more,' it does not diminish the presence of love in the relationship. "I've loved Spenny more than I've ever loved anyone else," she affirmed.
Matthews shared a specific instance where Williams showed him affection shortly after Remy's birth. He recalled bringing her favorite champagne to the hospital, and during a moment with guests, they shared glasses. He noted that she made "really lovely stuff" about him, including compliments on his parenting. Matthews remarked that these were the kinds of affirmations he often expresses to her, but they don't always come back to him immediately, humorously adding that she likely believes he admires himself enough already.
Despite these observations about affection, Matthews stated that he wouldn't change much about their relationship. He acknowledged that their marriage, like any other, has its "ups and downs" but ultimately described their relationship as great and expressed that he feels lucky to have her as his partner.