Sai De Silva, a prominent figure on The Real Housewives Of New York City, is ready to showcase a more authentic version of herself in the current season, reflecting a significant personal evolution over the past four years. This shift in perspective comes after navigating marital issues and a period of estrangement from her husband, David Craig, a situation she revealed in the season's premiere.
De Silva acknowledged a past tendency to present a carefully curated image, admitting, "The way I handled things back then is not necessarily the way I would handle things now." She explained that her experiences have fostered greater empathy and opened her heart, allowing her to approach situations with a renewed understanding. This personal growth has been instrumental in her desire to "redeem" herself this season, a sentiment she shared with castmate Jessel Taank, who has been receptive to De Silva's candidness.
Opening up about personal struggles on reality television presented a challenge for De Silva, who expressed initial nervousness about exposing her life to public opinion. However, she found the process to be therapeutic. "When you’re authentically yourself, what can people say?" she posited. "This is me; this is who I am. Take it or leave it."
De Silva also commented on the dynamics of the current season, including the addition of new cast member Daisy Toye, whom she met years ago while working at SCORES. De Silva described Toye as charismatic and energetic, a fitting addition to the show.
Regarding the show's storylines, De Silva addressed an incident at Jessel Taank's party involving Erin Lichy, stating she was unaware of the escalating tension as she had briefly stepped away. She also commented on Taank's speech during the event, deeming it "a tad pointed, but rightfully so." De Silva confirmed she has forgiven Lichy for sharing personal information, describing it as a common occurrence in friendships.
Looking ahead, De Silva teased that the existing friendship dynamics within the cast are likely to shift, promising surprising developments for viewers. She also shared her enthusiasm for the upcoming season's cast, particularly identifying Hailey Glassman as her "Rookie of the Year" for her unapologetic nature and loyalty.
Beyond her reality television commitments, De Silva has launched a Substack newsletter titled "Sai Unseen," where she engages in writing, a practice she finds therapeutic. She is also venturing into product development with a new, undisclosed product that she is passionate about and hopes to feature on the show.
New episodes of The Real Housewives Of New York City air Tuesdays at 8 PM ET on Bravo.