Ola Jordan has shared that her "heart has felt heavier than I ever imagined it could" as she reflects on a difficult summer marked by her split from husband James Jordan. The couple, who were together for 26 years and married in 2003, announced their separation earlier this month.
Jordan, 43, broke her silence on Instagram on Friday, describing the period as one where "life has changed in ways I never expected, and some days have been incredibly tough." She credited their six-year-old daughter, Ella, as a constant source of comfort. "Spending these summer holidays with my baby girl, making memories, having cuddles, laughing until our tummies hurt and simply enjoying every precious moment together has been my greatest comfort," Jordan wrote. "She may not realise it now, but she has been my little ray of sunshine through some of my darkest days."
Despite the personal challenges, Jordan expressed a focus on what truly matters. "This summer hasn’t been the one I imagined, but I’m choosing to focus on what truly matters - her, our memories, and all the love between us," she stated. She also extended her gratitude to those who have offered support. "And to everyone who has sent me messages, checked in on me, shown me kindness or simply reminded me that I’m not alone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your love and support have meant more to me than you will ever know."
Ola and James Jordan decided to end their relationship permanently after a trial separation, with James moving out of their family home. James Jordan, 48, has spoken about his struggles, describing the situation as a "midlife crisis" and admitting he has found the "last few years really tough" and is "struggling with life at the minute." In a trailer for his new podcast, "Manopause" with Brendan Cole, he discussed career choices and a perceived lack of purpose.
During an appearance on "This Morning," James Jordan described his current living situation, stating he spends his evenings "sitting alone in a one-bed flat watching TV." He explained his decision to move out, saying, "I just feel I need that time to find myself again." He also noted that the "Manopause" podcast, which focuses on men's mental health, has been a helpful outlet.
A joint statement released by the couple acknowledged the difficulty of their situation. "At the moment we’re taking some time apart as we work through very difficult personal challenges," the statement read. "Our absolute priority, now and always, is our beautiful daughter Ella. She’s at the centre of everything we do. We are committed to co-parenting her with all the love, care and stability she deserves."