A men-only retreat in Bali, Indonesia, has ignited a social media firestorm due to its exclusion of women, which the establishment claims is necessary for male personal development. Bali Time Chamber, located in northern Indonesia, markets itself as an exclusive sanctuary for men seeking to "level up in their life," a policy that has drawn both staunch support and sharp condemnation online.
The retreat's promotional materials state that "women are banned" because they "don’t let people grow." A clip shared from the resort's social media profile indicated that the location "only accepts men who want to work on their physique, grow their business and meet like-minded individuals." The establishment also bans alcohol, drugs, processed foods, entertainment, and social media, aiming to eliminate distractions for its guests.
This approach has polarized public opinion. Critics have labeled the retreat an "echo chamber of sweaty, testosterone-filled misogyny" and a "nightmare," with some questioning the concept of "alpha male" holidays that can cost upwards of $3,000. Online commenters have expressed skepticism about the security of attendees who would pay for such a designation and criticized the exclusivity.
Conversely, supporters argue that such retreats offer valuable psychological benefits for men. Some proponents point to a study suggesting that men's-only getaways can enhance participants' ability to bond, forgive, and exhibit assertiveness. Advocates for Bali Time Chamber argue that men, like women, can benefit from spaces dedicated to self-improvement without the perceived distractions or complexities that the presence of the opposite sex might introduce.
"A retreat where men can focus on themselves seems like a nice idea. Im a woman. Women have retreats and stuff," one supporter commented, according to reports. Others have defended the concept, suggesting that similar events for women are often praised, and that singling out this program for criticism reveals societal biases. They contend that having a space for men to "relax, improve both physically and mentally" is not inherently negative and that the presence of the opposite sex can sometimes create competition or jealousy that hinders personal focus for any gender.