Man Receives Prison Sentence for Domestic Violence After Meeting Partner on Dating App

Steve Burchett, 48, was sentenced at Lewes Crown Court in September after a relationship that began on a dating app turned violent. His ex-partner, identified as Sarah, recounted a harrowing nine-month period during which Burchett left her with bruises, broke her ribs, bit her, strangled her, and threatened her dogs.

Sarah met Burchett, a painter and decorator, on a dating app at the age of 50, after experiencing infidelity in her previous marriage. She described him as initially charming and attentive, showering her with compliments and flowers. Friends and family also found him to be pleasant and "almost too nice."

However, Sarah later discovered that Burchett had a history of domestic violence against previous partners. During their relationship, Burchett became increasingly jealous, often after drinking alcohol. He accused Sarah of texting other men and demanded access to her messages, even suggesting lie detector tests.

Burchett's abuse escalated to physical violence approximately three to four months into the relationship. Sarah reported incidents of hitting, kicking, strangulation, and being pushed to the floor, resulting in broken ribs. He also sent threatening text and voice messages and damaged her doors.

Sarah stated that Burchett manipulated her into believing she was responsible for his behavior. He would often apologize after abusive episodes, bringing flowers and promising it would not happen again, which she felt contributed to her staying in the relationship. Threats were also made against her dogs.

The abuse ended in August when Sarah, fearing escalation, contacted her ex-husband for help. Her sister then encouraged her to report the incidents to the police. Burchett was arrested at the end of August.

Burchett received a sentence of two years for controlling or coercive behavior and 16 months for intentional strangulation, to be served concurrently. He is required to serve one-third of his sentence in custody and one-third on license, with the final third subject to review. A five-year restraining order was also issued.

Sarah has shared her story to help other women recognize the warning signs of abusive relationships. She highlighted initial red flags she overlooked, including his jealousy, constant accusations, lack of contact with his six children from previous relationships, speaking negatively about ex-partners, and appearing "too nice."

She also mentioned Clare's Law, the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme, which allows individuals to inquire with police about a partner's history of domestic violence. Sarah praised the Sussex Police for their support and encouraged others to report abuse.