Contrary to reports of devastation, Keith Urban is said to be experiencing a sense of relief following his ex-wife Nicole Kidman's new relationship with businessman Michael Reinstein. Sources close to the country singer indicate that Urban had been unhappy for an extended period, feeling constrained by the demands of the Hollywood lifestyle and Kidman's high-profile career.
Urban, 58, reportedly felt overwhelmed by the constant need for red carpet appearances and the associated pressures, preferring a simpler life focused on his music. Friends suggest he didn't want to be part of that world anymore and found it outside his comfort zone. This desire for privacy was evident throughout their nearly two decades of marriage, with Urban occasionally skipping high-profile events.
Kidman, 59, an actress and producer, has maintained a significantly more demanding schedule than Urban. In the past three years, she has been involved in 12 TV and film productions and produced nine. In contrast, Urban released one album, held a Las Vegas residency, and completed a world tour in 2025. The disparity in their professional obligations has led to compromises, including Kidman missing Urban's father's funeral in 2015 due to filming commitments, although Urban attended her father's memorial.
Urban had previously admitted in a 2014 Rolling Stone interview that Kidman once told him he needed to step out of her shadow, suggesting that outside of the country music genre, he was primarily known as "Nic’s husband." The couple had reportedly established a limit of five days apart during their marriage, with Kidman stating that Urban would travel for even short periods to be with her.
The divorce, announced in September 2025, came after allegations that the couple had been living separate lives for nearly three years. Their last public appearance together was at a FIFA Club World Cup match in Nashville in June 2025. Following the separation announcement, Urban gave interviews that hinted at the strain, describing life mapping as "a job" and abruptly ending another interview when asked about Kidman's intimate scenes with co-star Zac Efron.
Insiders suggest that Kidman has been the more upset party in the divorce, with one source claiming she was "holding the kids over his head" and limiting his time with their daughters, Sunday Rose and Faith Margaret. The divorce filing indicates Kidman has custody of the daughters for 306 days a year, with Urban having visitation every other weekend and alternating holidays.
Kidman has reportedly introduced Reinstein to their daughters, with one source describing the meeting as a "smashing success." The daughters reportedly enjoyed Reinstein's company, and Sunday Rose was particularly pleased due to his business connections in the fashion industry.

Rumors about Urban dating others following the split, including his guitarist Maggie Baugh and opening act Karley Scott Collins, have been denied by sources who state that "none of the dating or sobriety rumors are true." The sources emphasize that Urban remains sober and is approaching 20 years of sobriety, refuting any claims of relapse. Urban has previously credited Kidman with saving his life during his past struggles with substance abuse.
According to one source, Urban's decision to end the marriage was prompted by a poignant question: "When you see yourself in ten years do you see Nicole in that picture?" His inability to envision Kidman in his future led to his departure from the marriage. The source described Urban as a "simple guy" who desires a home in Nashville and a beach house.