Katherine Ryan Describes Motherhood as a 'Scam,' Jokes About Her Eldest Daughter

Katherine Ryan, the 43-year-old comedian, has humorously described motherhood as a "scam" and suggested that having "one and done" is the most "chic" approach. Ryan, who has four children, made these remarks during a recent parenting discussion on Hits Radio with Will Best and Fleur East.

Ryan is mother to Violet, 17, from a previous relationship, and Fred, three, Fenna, two, and Holland Juliette, 11 months, with her husband Bobby Koostra. She joked that if she had only had her eldest daughter, Violet, she could be in Miami or "anywhere" and be free. "I love the children, but like, yeah," she added, referring to motherhood as a "scam."

When Best suggested that children eventually become a supportive group for parents, Ryan countered that her 17-year-old daughter treats her like "garbage." She elaborated that her daughter often reacts negatively to her actions, recounting an instance where Violet expressed disgust upon hearing a voice note Ryan was sending to her agent. Ryan also noted the biological timing of having daughters reach puberty as mothers approach perimenopause, suggesting this can lead to emotional conflict as they prepare to leave home.

This is not the first time Ryan has spoken candidly about her children. In July, she revealed on Davina McCall's "Begin Again" podcast that she has a favorite child: Violet. Ryan explained that she considers her younger children to be "nepobabies," having benefited from the privileges of her success, such as private education, which Violet did not have. The absence of Violet's father was also cited as a factor in her preference.

Her earlier comments about having a favorite child sparked backlash online, with some Facebook followers expressing concern about the potential long-term emotional effects on her children. Critics suggested that declaring a favorite could make other children feel inadequate and impact their future relationships, while the favored child might experience guilt.