Jack Antonoff Continues Performing Love Songs About Ex Margaret Qualley, Citing 'No Shame'
The Grammy-winning producer discussed his commitment to performing emotionally resonant songs from his past relationships, even after their conclusion.
Jack Antonoff, a prolific producer and musician, has affirmed his intention to continue performing love songs he wrote about his former partner, actress Margaret Qualley, despite their separation earlier this year. Antonoff, 42, and Qualley, 32, parted ways in July after nearly three years together, with their union confirmed to have ended in August 2023.
In an interview with The Guardian, Antonoff detailed his internal debate about whether to remove songs from his setlist that were inspired by his past relationship. He ultimately decided against it, explaining that his commitment is to authentically express his feelings through his music. "I have no shame about the things I've said," Antonoff stated, referring to the lyrical content of his songs. "My life has been dedicated to making it impossible for me to rewrite the past, because I'm standing there, singing about how I felt during the good times, so when the bad times hit I can't look myself in the mirror and pretend that those times didn't exist."
Antonoff acknowledged the potential emotional complexity for both himself and his audience when performing these songs. "Anyone could relate to the terrible sadness and pain, but there's a great power to it also," he commented. He described the experience as "beautiful" when fans connect with the emotional depth of the music, understanding its origins and its current meaning to them.
Antonoff publicly addressed his separation from Qualley on September 15 during a concert at the Troubadour in Los Angeles. When a fan requested the song "Let's Get Married," Antonoff lightheartedly responded, "Absolutely not – read the news, brother." The couple was first romantically linked in 2021 and married in August 2023. Representatives for Qualley stated that the split was amicable, with no infidelity involved and emphasized that external sources commenting on their relationship were not privy to their private affairs.