Single women are reporting an emerging trend on the dating app Hinge where men appear to be seeking free accommodation rather than romantic connections. According to reports, this behavior has become more prevalent around major events, with the FIFA World Cup being cited as a particular instance.
Users have shared anecdotes on social media and in online discussions detailing encounters where matches quickly pivot to inquiries about temporary housing. One content creator, Emily Durham, cautioned users about men using Hinge as a way to find free places to stay, particularly in cities that are host to large international events.
One widely shared story describes a man who, after initial flirty exchanges on Hinge, proposed a weekend date with the caveat that he might need to stay over due to living far away. When the woman declined, the man reportedly admitted he was not seeking a serious relationship but rather intended to "spend the weekend together" while presumably securing lodging. This alleged tactic has led to women expressing frustration and cautioning others.
Reports suggest that users looking for free housing are especially active during events like the World Cup, with some individuals traveling to host cities. One user recounted a match who sent a lengthy voice note explaining he was visiting New York City for a week but lacked accommodation, prompting an immediate unmatch. Another user shared a similar experience, where a match inquired about staying at her home during an annual racing event.
Some individuals have also reported men being direct about their intentions when rejected for housing requests, with one stating, "That’s not what I’m looking for." The phenomenon has drawn commentary online, with some describing the situation as indicative of a difficult dating landscape.
While the focus has been on men seeking accommodation, the source material also notes instances where women have allegedly used dating apps for other practical needs, such as finding individuals to help with tasks like furniture assembly. This suggests a broader pattern of users leveraging dating platforms for purposes beyond traditional romantic pursuits.