AI Doomsayer's Personal Life Detailed Amidst Existential Warnings

Nate Soares, president of the Machine Intelligence Research Institute (MIRI) and co-author of the AI doomsday book “If Anyone Builds It, Everyone Dies,” is publicly described as a partner by Aella, an online writer and creator who extensively chronicles her sexual experiences, including orgies and various sexual kinks.

Aella, who earns significant income through platforms like OnlyFans, has discussed Soares in relation to themes such as consensual non-consent. In one online exchange, she responded to a query about making the kink more energetic by stating, "Nate v good at that it’s horrifying." She also alluded to Soares' demanding work schedule, joking that he "really does look like that" after periods of intense work, meetings, and travel.

Soares has become a prominent figure advocating for AI safety, expressing a particularly pessimistic view on the potential for superhuman artificial intelligence to lead to human extinction. He has stated his long-held ambition to "save the world," a goal he initially pursued through political systems before focusing on the perceived existential threat posed by AI. After working as a software engineer at Google, Soares joined MIRI in 2014 and became its president in 2023, shifting the organization's focus towards educating policymakers and the public on AI risks.

Aella's public writings offer insights into her personal life and relationship. In February 2024, she described a birthday gangbang organized by her "partner and some friends" that included 42 attendees. While not explicitly naming Soares in that post, her prior public identification of him as her partner suggests his potential involvement.

In a detailed Substack essay, Aella described an orgy experience that involved a scenario of consensual non-consent, emphasizing that all described encounters were consensual and that she did not regret them. She used these narratives to explore sexual psychology and highlight the difference between partners who can accurately read cues and those who cannot, stressing that the graphic imagery was not an account of abuse.

She has also written about Soares filming porn together and referred to him as "very good" at consensual non-consent, describing the experience as "horrifying."

More recently, Aella promoted "Slutcon," an event described as an intensive workshop focused on enhancing sexual and flirting skills. In the same post, she discussed the growing anxiety surrounding AI safety, noting that figures like Sam Altman, Dario Amodei, and Elon Musk have called for slowing AI development. She observed a mix of "desperation and hope" within her social circle regarding AI advancements. Aella also mentioned an upcoming gathering focused on AI extinction risk, which would feature speakers from AI safety organizations and former OpenAI policy researchers.

The Post has reached out to both Soares and Aella for comment.